For most of my adult life I lived ‘parallel lives’. On the one path I was severely alcoholic, while simultaneously following a path of intense self-discovery and self-betterment. My experiences as well as extensive study in the area of human growth potential, reading and writing have equipped me to lead a life of excellent health, fitness and much joy.
Reading this, it is likely that you find yourself somewhere on the continuum of addiction, recovery and what I term “Beyond Recovery’. During my traversing of that lengthy road I always believed there was, paradoxically, a purpose behind it all for me. And so I continually developed material that I personally implemented while at the same time believing that i would be passing on that material to be of benefit to others similarly afflicted.
The following is taken from the back cover of one of the books Rex has written, namely: ‘Last Round. Cheers! From Alcoholic Insanity to Hope. A True Story.’: “Rex Hillier is a life coach, author and speaker. He had a successful school career, particularly in sport and leadership roles, later graduating from Stellenbosch, South Africa with a BA Economics degree. Rex focuses on spiritual growth and self-development.The book is about addiction, recovery … and beyond. It is a paradoxical true story of an alcoholic’s life-long struggle with alcoholism, while simultaneously focusing on self-improvement and spiritual growth. … - it journeys through the excruciatingly painful depths of alcoholic degeneration yet also scales the majestic peaks of spiritual freedom. … It is the story of an originally talented and promising life being sucked dry to the last dregs of the wine bottle. Not a celebrity dethroned but rather a person most people can relate to, the more common ‘boy next door’.”
My focus now is the time and space in ‘Beyond Recovery’ which is where I am and where I desire to help others travel towards and then live within. Self-allocated or other-allocated limitations, boundaries and categories are here done away with; as also identity-limiting language usage. It is an area of superlative freedom and joy. My aspiration is to help as many people as possible to attain this fulfilling state of being.
Some testimonials I have included attest strongly to the authenticity of my experiential adoption of aspects of life which i have found to be hugely healing and rewarding.
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